Sunday, August 3, 2014

Zig Ziglar - Born to Win: Find Your Success Code


Zig Ziglar was born in Coffee County in southeastern Alabama to parents John Silas Ziglar and Lila Wescott Ziglar. He was the tenth of twelve children.

In 1931, when Ziglar was five years old, his father took a management position at a Mississippi farm, and his family moved to Yazoo City, Mississippi, where he spent most of his early childhood. The next year, his father died of a stroke, and his younger sister died two days later.

Ziglar served in the United States Navy during World War II, from 1943 to 1945. He was in the Navy V-12 Navy College Training Program and attended the University of South Carolina in Columbia, South Carolina.

In 1944, he met his wife, Jean, in the capital city of Mississippi, Jackson; he was seventeen and she was sixteen. They married in late 1946. (The Red Head)

Ziglar later worked as a salesman in a succession of companies. In 1968, he became a vice president and training director for the Automotive Performance company, moving to Dallas, Texas.

As of 2010, Ziglar still traveled around taking part in motivational seminars, despite a fall down a flight of stairs in 2007 that left him with short-term memory problems. State Representative Chris Greeley of Maine mentions Ziglar in the credits of his CD on public speaking.

Ziglar wove his Christianity into his motivational work. He was also an open Republican who endorsed former Governor Mike Huckabee for his party's presidential nomination in 2008




What Success Is:
  1. Success is knowing that you did a great job when you close the door to your office at the end of each workday and head for home. 
  2. Success is having a home and people to love who love you in return. 
  3. Success is having the financial security to meet your obligations each month and the knowledge that you have provided that security for your family in the event of your demise. 
  4. Success is having the kind of faith that lets you know where to turn when there seems to be no place to turn. 
  5. Success is having an interest or hobby that gives you joy and peace. 
  6. Success is knowing who you are, and whose you are. 
  7. Success is taking good care of you and waking up healthy each day. 
  8. Success is slipping under the covers at the end of the day and realizing with gratitude that, “It just doesn't get much better than this!”

Character

Sometimes all it takes is a word, a phrase, or a thought planted in someone’s mind to change his or her whole life. It truly pays to watch closely what and how you think. Our thinking really does drive our character. Frank Outlaw expressed the power of our thoughts this way: 
  • Watch your thoughts; they become words. 
  • Watch your words; they become actions. 
  • Watch your actions; they become habits. 
  • Watch your habits; they become character. 
  • Watch your character; for it becomes your destiny! 
The point I want to make here is that your character truly does become your destiny, because your character determines your future. And your character is largely formed by how.

Reaching Your Goals 
  1. Make the commitment to reach your goal. “One person with a commitment is worth a hundred who only have an interest.” —Mary Crowley 
  2. Commit yourself to detailed accountability. Record your weekly activities and list the six most important things, in the order of their importance, which you need to do tomorrow. 
  3. Build your life on a solid foundation of honesty, character, faith, integrity, love and loyalty. 
  4. Break your Intermediate and Long-Range Goals into increments. 
  5. Shape up mentally, physically and spiritually. It takes energy, mental toughness and spiritual reinforcement to successfully deal with life’s opportunities, and to reach your objectives. 
  6. Be prepared to change. 
  7. Share your “give-up” goals with many people. Chances are excellent they are going to encourage you. Share your “go up” goals only with those rare people you strongly feel will give you support and encouragement. 
  8. Become a team player. Learn to work with a team, such as your family, corporate associates, etc. 
  9. See the reaching. 
  10. Each time you reach a goal, your confidence will grow that you can do bigger and better things.


Part I: Planning to Win

Planning to win, as the book’s first part suggests, is a mindset makeover of how to begin living your life as it was meant to be lived. Ziglar begins with the foundation he laid in his previous best-selling book, See You at the Top,—desire is the most powerful motivator you have in your arsenal—and builds on it with helpful tools to sharpen your goal-setting and tips on how to effectively map out your plan.

Perhaps the most revealing of ‘Part I: Planning to Win’ are two simple questions: “What is your definition of success? And do you know what success is and what it isn’t?” If you hesitated, struggled, or tried to answer either question with one sentence, or attempted to define success with one idea, then you need to re-think your plans to attain success. After all, how can you achieve something you can’t even describe? “True success,” explains Ziglar, “has more components than one sentence or idea can contain.” Knowing what you want, being able to clearly relate it to an outsider—that is the first step which many jump over, only to misstep later on in the race of life.

If understanding success is the easily forgotten step, then understanding your goals is the next underrated course of action. Zig Ziglar gives a compelling illustration of the power of understanding one’s purpose:

“Three men were busy at the same task, and a passerby stopped and asked each of the men what they were doing. The first man said, “I am cutting stone.” The second man said, “I am earning my living.” The third man said, “I am building a cathedral.” All three of the men were involved in cutting stone. The first man saw no purpose or value in what he was doing, and my guess is that his days were long and tedious. He probably went home tired and exhausted every night and dreaded going to work each day.

The second man had a different perspective. He saw cutting the stones as a means to earn a living and probably had a better attitude than the first man. However, the value and purpose he saw in his effort was merely about getting his paycheck. I imagine this man spent a lot of time thinking about other jobs he might be able to get and probably found his work boring and repetitive.

The third man knew he was cutting stone, and he knew he was earning a paycheck, but he also saw value and purpose in his work that transcended those basic realities. The third man was building a cathedral that would be used by people. The cathedral would be a spiritual and social center where men and women could come to worship and fellowship together. That church, when completed, would give people hope and help them live better lives. What do you think the third man’s attitude was about his work? My guess is that he couldn’t wait to get to work every day. I imagine he arrived early and stayed late. He probably talked about his work all the time and was grateful to be doing something that was so much fun! I’m sure he could visualize that finished church in his mind and couldn’t wait to go there.”

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